HIRAYA

I don’t have anything against those people who borrow money from their friends. Of course, we always experience the low times where in our expenses is more than the salary we’re getting. That’s normal. We are living on the same planet that’s why I understand your concern. But you know what makes me mad with these people? I’ll cite an example.

Will you lend them money if of all these times, she’ll just contact you just to ask for your help? She never even bother to text you on special occasions such as on Christmas, New Year or even your birthday?

Will you lend her money if you know for a fact that she had borrowed money from your common friends and up to now she hasn’t paid any of it and seems like she took it for free?

What I am trying to say is build your integrity. If you want people to trust you, give them reasons to trust you.

This is not just about money, this is about my trust, our friendship, and the effort I’m exerting at work just to earn that amount of money she’s borrowing.

I suggest you get a work and earn for yourself. It seems like you’re too much dependent with the people around you. Get a life of your own! Stop being a parasite!